Monday, May 17, 2010
Dr. L. Crabb's Model of Counseling
Stage three of Crabb’s counseling model is identifying problem thinking. A wrong basic belief about their significance or their security has caused the problem feelings and behavior. It is only when the wrong thinking is identified that the tough work begins. Stage 4 is changing the assumptions or clarifying biblical thinking. It can be extremely difficult to change someone’s core belief system no matter how wrong it might be. Changing their belief system will not happen overnight but stage 5 can began once they understand the new belief. Stage 5 is securing the client’s commitment to act on the new belief. They must act as if it is already part of their belief system, even if they do not feel it. They must say, for example, “I choose to believe it and commit myself to acting consistently with it even though I do not feel like performing the necessary behavior” (p. 155). Stage 6 moves to client to the planning and carrying out the biblical behavior. The final stage comes when the client feels like something is wrong when they do not act according to the biblical belief system. Stage 7 is the identification of spirit-controlled feelings. “The development of an sense of quietness, togetherness, and peacefulness is a gratify and reassuring experience” (p. 159). It is at this final stage the client truly feels the Holy Spirit moving in their life. They have reached the move-up goal through hard work and transforming work of the Holy Spirit.
Christian Counselors Need to Know
Next counselors need to understand the motivation individual have to do what they do. Motivation is best viewed as the energy behind an individual’s actions. When an individual’s needs are not currently being met, they are motivated to take action. Crabb feels counselors need to understand that when a need is not met individuals function from a deficit motivation. If the client cannot find a way to met the need they will be motivated to protect themselves. Unfortunately, most of the behaviors chosen at this point are those designed to “anesthetize or compensate for the emotional pains of fleeing worthless (p. 85). They may choose drugs, alcohol, food, or one or more of many other behaviors designed to help them hide from the deficit, failure, or loss.
Finally, a counselor must understand what makes a person tick. Here Crabb describes the person or breaks down the personality into the unconscious and conscious mind, the heart (or basic direction), the will, and emotions. When a counselor understands how events are processed and the affects it has on a person’s basic assumptions. It is how he feels about the event to determine the individual’s reactions/behaviors. Wrong assumptions result in anxiety, guilt, or resentment. Anxiety, guilt, and resentment can lead to crisis and problem behavior. When the goal for change is biblically aligned is promotes complete transformation. Romans 12:2 says “do not be conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of the mind, that you may prove what is good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God” [KJV]. Well-prepared counselors can, with the help of the Holy Spirit move the person towards transformation.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Integration of Christianity and Psychology
Goal of Christian Counsling - Dr. Larry Crabb
The goals of counseling are as varied as there are theories, models, methods, and counselors. Secular counselors tend to lean towards the goal of making the client happy. That is why the client is in their office. They want to feel good and be happy. According to Dr. Larry Crabb (1977) ‘there is nothing wrong with wanting to be happy” (p. 20). However, he goes on to remind us that a self-absorbed preoccupation with personal happiness can be an obstacle to finding profound, enduring joy. Therefore, Crabb’s goal of counseling is found in a biblical route to the joy found at the right hand of God, abiding in His boundless love. His goal leads to spiritual maturity. Crabb breaks down his goal in two parts. The over goal is responding to problem circumstances biblically or in obedience to God’s will. Responding in biblical obedience changes problem behavior but this is not enough. Counselors must work to change attitudes, change thinking, and create an atmosphere where clients can renew their mind. This is the up goal. The over goal is an external movement. The up goal however is an inward renewal and transformation.
Crabb, L. J. (1977). Effective Biblical Counseling: A Model for Helping Caring Christians Become Capable Counselors. Grand Rapids, Mi: Zondervan.
Friday, May 14, 2010
Why Precious Promises
The begining, Precious Promises
Father, I don't know how you wish me to use this time and space. I place it in Your hands. Lead me, guide me, direct me. Give me wisdom and knowledge to share your love with others. Maybe I should share my learning and struggles to the benefit of others. Whatever You call me to do let me hear Your word an Your Will. Father, what are You calling me to do today! In the name of my Precious Savior I pray. Amen